Q: I’m afraid of a big change coming up in my life?
A: It depends on what type of change it is! If it’s reversible of temporary and you think it will benefit you, I say go for it, no matter what. If it’s harder to reverse, weigh the pros and cons. You’re young, it’s the time to take risks!
Q: I’ve been seeing this person and they’ve been really into me. They’re starting to pull away… I can’t tell if they’re getting scared or are getting sick of me. What do I do?
A: Honestly, in this situation, I’d straight up ask. If you go to them and say “i really like where this is going, if you’re scared that’s totally fine, just let me know! If you’re over it, That’s fine too.” If they don’t respond, I’d assume they ghosted you.
Q: What’s the secret to a long and happy life? My friend told me tarantulas are immortal, do they know? Do you know any tarantulas I could ask?
A: Hey man, although I’ve met a tarantula or two in my day, none of them have ever told me the secrets of immorality. I’d check your friend’s advice a couple times. As for living your life to the fullest, I’d find what you prioritize, like your career, your education, your friends, etc. and focus on that!